Ivan Kurlander

Dearest Irene and the Kurlander family: My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family every day. Ivan was such a remarkable man who always showed how much he loved you. He has given you so many fond memories to hold onto and cherish. Ivan--you cooked a mean steak-"I don't want a puppy-I want a 5 year old!"--Thanks for the smiles and kindness. You will be greatly missed. Love to all-John, Jeannine, John Jr and Christopher LoCicero

I remember when we first met Ivan and Irene they had just moved in next door to us and we were sooo very happy to have them as neighbors and as th years went by we came to realize just how special and kind a person Ivan was, one Easter sunday our car broke down out on 84 and he came and resued us, even though he was expecting his own family for dinner that day, he towed our car all the way back with a smile and a 'happy to help'. We imagine him in Heaven in a very comfortable recliner with Peanut and maybe even our Watson (he and peanut were best buds) on his lap.We will miss you Ivan..

Ivan; Iam going to miss you,but I know GOD needs you with him.Enjoy Heven and I will meet you there. Your Friend Ray

Dear Irene and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish you strength and courage in this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Donna Somogyi

Dear Irene: I am so sorry for your loss. May the memories of your beloved Ivan give you comfort, and help sustain you in the coming days. Sincerely, Lucy Simpson

I will miss Ivan, we always had a lot of laughs together.Ivan and Irene were two people that everyone would want as a neighbor. He helped me put in a new sliding door even though he had worked late shuft the night before.The old door meassured five feet across, the box on the new door said it was five feet across, it was really five feet and a quarter inch. Ivan figured out how to make it fit. I know I would not have gotten that door in place with out his help.Ivan was great that way, he stayed calm while I didn't.More than once Ivan helped me with different cars that we had.One time after food shopping sue and the kids and I went to the McDonalds to get lunch, our car broke down in the drive thru,Ivan pushed us home saving lunch,groceries and my sanity.He had that way about him,easygoing and calm. I will miss his relaxed approach to everyday difficulties, I will miss him. Ivan was really one of the good guys, I will miss my friend.

Ivan was truly a kind and gentle man and a wonderful husband to his beloved Irene. You could tell by the way they spoke to each other how much love and respect they had for each other and how they were each others' best friend. He will be terribly missed not just by his family, whose grief is immeasurable, but by all who knew this gentle soul. I personally will miss the barbeques at the lake house and Ivan's famous sausage and peppers! Rest in God's arms, dear Ivan. You were a blessing to all who had the good fortune to know you.

I'm deeply sadden to hear of Ivan's passing away in death and wish to give my heartfelt condolences to his family. Recently, Ivan had contacted me via the internet, after we lost contact with each other for 35 years. What a nice surprise that was! Unforturnately, the opportunity to renew old friendships has passed. In his letter to me, Ivan mentioned, "Life is good. I've been married for 20 years. It's the best thing that ever happened to me. We couldn't be happier." With that, his love for his wife was obvious... So many years have gone by since I've heard Ivan call me, "little buddy" or "Pal", but they're words that will always remind me of him and his good nature... John 16:31-33

Irene, My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of Ivan.

I have been a friend of Ivan's wire Irene since high school. While I didn't know Ivan, Irene's devotion to him is a true reflection of his character. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Although I never knew Ivan personally, through Irene and her love for him, I feel I did know him and their devotion to each other..........Irene, my dear friend, please know my sympathy is with you and your family............Ivan is with our God in heaven and at peace.............He will always be in your heart....Love, Connie

I new Ivan from working with him at Chester cable we becme good friend then when I left to have a little one we lose touch.thanks to facebook he find me we keep in touch.I am sorry for your loss and i never got to met his wife that all he talk about.God will watch over you I will miss my friend

Ivan was a remarkable man who left wonderful memories with everyone whose life he touched. His caring manner and good sense of humor made everyday life seem special. When I was in the hospital many years ago, Irene and Ivan drove all the way to White Plains several times a week after work to visit me. I will never forget their consideration and friendship when I needed it most. Ivan had tremendous courage to overcome adversity. His family and friends will never forget how he overcame the odds to walk down the aisle on his wedding day to Irene despite his injuries from a car accident. Many people who attended that wedding said it was the most beautiful and touching wedding they had ever attended. Thank you for the laughs and the friendship. Your buddy, Irene

I didnt know Ivan that long but I know he was the kindest and caring person, Always willing to do for someone, He was very very good to his Mother. God Bless him. I am very saddened reading about him. My prayers are with his family.

RIP IVAN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO HIS FAMILY

My prayers are with you all,especially,you Irene. I remember Ivan from High School and the memories you are all sharing are no surprise to me. Even back then he was such a kind person. He could always make you laugh and had the greatest laugh himself!! Thank you, Ivan, for making this world a better place! Not everyone does!! God bless you all . Alison

Dear Irene, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Ivan was such a good friend and neighbor to both myself and my sons(Jeff and Joe Reed).We had some good times at birthday parties and graduation parties.

I have many good memories. My sympathy to the family.

My dear son we love you and miss you. You went too too early. Words can not express my sorrow....love hugs and kisses for ever and ever....xoxoxox Mom

Ivan was truly one of the nicest guys you could ever know, so much so if you looked up "nice guy" in the dictionary, Ivan's picture would be there! He embraced life and also appreciated the simple things in life. A memory I have of Ivan is at the “Pocono Play House”, chllaxin’ in his oversize recliner with Peanuts by his side, kicking back with a cold beer watching a Yankees or Mets game. And I have to give a shout out from Megan and Mark – Ivan made THEE best ear of corn on a grill! Not matter how many times Ivan told Mark how to make the corn, Mark could never duplicate “Ivan’s corn”. Like all “boys” Ivan enjoyed his “toys”, his many cars (especially his “chick magnet convertible”), motorcycle, boat and even his golf cart!! Ivan also enjoyed a good joke (hence his great sense of humor), good music (“Pour Some Sugar on Me” and “Rockin’ the Beer Gut”) and an overall good time. Ivan enjoyed the weekends in the Poconos, trips to the Cape and Florida. Actually he enjoyed anywhere anytime he could spend with his “Reenie”. One of my favorite Ivan stories is that of his and Irene’s first date when he showed up in his “Grab a Heine” tee shirt!! Ivan was a devoted son, brother, uncle, friend and most certainly a dedicated husband. The love and life that Irene and Ivan shared was that of complete commitment, not only were they husband and wife, but “bffs” as well. It was almost like they had one name “Irenenivan”. I hope that the many cherished memories will give Irene strength and courage through the months ahead. Irene will always have Ivan as her guardian angel watching over her. Ivan will be sadly missed by all that knew him. I know I will miss him very much!!

Although I never had the opportunity to meet Ivan, I feel like I have known him just by all the kind words from so many here. Irene, knowing you for most of our lives, starting when we were kids back in Brooklyn, I am not surprised you had such a love in your live. You are a wonderful person and wouldn't settle for anything less than that. And I see you found that and more. God bless you and both of your families. You have an angel that will NEVER leave you. And what memories you share. That will never leave you and neither will we. We love you and if you need anything, please know we are a heartbeat away. I would love to share pictures of Ivan you and you so I feel I never missed out on the years we have been apart. love you Irene.

Growing up in the Bronx NY, my father, Bill Kurlander was Normans uncle and I remember visiting Ivan and Steven with my father many years ago. Over the years you loose track but i remember the good times we had when we were together. David Kurlander